What are the stories you tell yourself? Are there a few stories that are old, not really true, or someone else told that story about you and you adopted their view of You? Being present with your self is about recognizing what stories you are telling yourself and releasing those that no longer serve you, no longer describe you, or you no longer wish to believe. You are in the driver seat here. If one of your stories is that you do not have any or much talent, or you don't have strengths, then go take the Strengthfinders assessment from Gallup. You can create and grow the flame of life that is inside of you!